Despite reassurances that the economy is slowly recovering, the average citizen knows better. Gas and food prices continue to climb. While unemployment rates drop slightly, employers move jobs overseas, or eliminate redundancies, or succumb themselves to the bad economy. And everyone knows someone with either a foreclosure, an underwater mortgage, or an unsellable house. To borrow a term from Alan Greenspan, now is not the time for irrational exuberance.
Now is also not the time to curl up in a ball and die. Despite how it might feel, life continues, albeit in a sometimes radically altered way. The question of what you can afford becomes more urgent, and in the rush to reduce, it can be challenging to distinguish the essential from the expendable. Here’s what you need to build a life that is both livable and worth living.
1. Your Health
This is non-negotiable. This may also seem laughable. After all, if you are currently struggling with a chronic disease or illness, the cost of any ongoing treatment and medication is staggering. Did you know, though, that many brand-name drugs in the U.S. are available as generics in Canada? Shop around for the best prices on these essentials. If you have insurance, do whatever you can to not let it lapse. And if you are in relatively good health, now is the time to try and stay that way. Get your teeth cleaned once a year–it’s cheaper than cavities and can often be done at a discounted rate, either with a coupon or at your local dental school. If you need more serious work later at an ophthalmologist in Durham you’ll regret not taking those steps! Have your eyes examined–did you know a number of diseases such as diabetes and hypertension can be diagnosed with an eye exam? Add a multivitamin to your diet. And exercise is still free, so go for a walk or bicycle ride. The resulting endorphins won’t pay the bills, but they will reduce stress.
2. Education
Now more than ever is the time to go back to school, either full- or part-time. Take a night course at the community college to bump yourself to the next pay grade. No job prospects in the foreseeable future? This may be the opportunity to shift careers. Do research to find what jobs are in demand in your area. Many require only a certification program or a two-year degree. Campuses can be a place to network and host to job fairs. Even if only for your personal gratification, learning something new keeps the mind nimble and and may add a line to your resumé.
3. Entertainment
Television may be just another opiate for the masses. But it’s also an opportunity to laugh, to be moved, to yell at the screen and, most importantly, to escape, if only for a little while. The problem is, cable and satellite services charge a minimum of $50 a month when you add in all the taxes and FCC surcharges. Increasingly, people are abandoning traditional providers in favor of the web, where most shows can be watched for free with limited commercials. Or for around $10 a month, you can get Hulu+, Netflix or Amazon Prime, all of which have an abundance of instant streaming options from television to movies. Going to the movies, especially if you have to hire a sitter, is now akin to going to the doctor in cost. Have a date night in instead: make fresh popcorn, get a box of Junior Mints at the grocery and watch half a season of Mad Men in one sitting. You are nearly guaranteed to get lucky after four hours of Don Draper.
4. Savings
Right now you are thinking, if I could afford to save, I wouldn’t be in this mess. The fact is, you can afford to save, even if only in the smallest increments. While experts will tell you to save 10% of your income, and to have 3-6 months salary saved in cash, for most this is completely unrealistic. But don’t let the numbers overwhelm you to the point that you don’t save at all. Even if only $5 a week, any amount of savings will help you to feel more in control and will add a small pocket of security to your financial uncertainty.
5. Love & Beauty
Don’t laugh. After all, what is all the rest of it worth without love and beauty? Without someone to hug and that feeling inside of you of something taking flight, of your breath being taken away, of tears that spring to your eyes unbidden? There is no time that calls more loudly for kindness, compassion, and patience than a time of need. If we can can connect with one another, if we can bond over our collective suffering, then we can ease the burden of it by sharing the load. It is in this sharing that we see the beauty of our humanity. Don’t forget to look around you, to notice the passing of the seasons and the way the sky changes. Every museum has one day a week or month when admission is free, so go see some art. Read a library book. Go volunteer at your local soup kitchen and see what real need looks like. Go to church or spend time with the people you love. Because ultimately, it is hard work and inspiration that will get us out of this mess. Do your part by finding out what inspires you.










